No Pressure: One of the things that scared me the most when I first started traveling alone was feeling lonely. My initial reaction was to pile up as many activities per day as possible in the planning stages to ensure I could avoid as many possibilities of that happening as possible. The thing is though, by planning out of fear, you create a huge amount of pressure to 1) not feel lonely and 2) stick to a regimented schedule. Both these things create a HUGE amount of pressure on your arrival.
If there is one thing you gain by this article, then let it be this: One of the coolest things about traveling alone is that you get to do whatever you want, whenever you want, however you want. Don’t ruin that experience. You want to wander aimlessly for hours? Do it. You want to take a nap in the middle of the day? Do it. Own the experience to be free. And if you get lonely? Then own that too.
Be Social for the Experience – Not for Social’s Sake: You are traveling to experience something different and with that comes meeting different people you may not otherwise have met when traveling with another. Be social, reach out to others, start conversations and do so out of genuine interest in the person rather than out of fear of being lonely. I say this because if you do it out of fear you may find yourself with the first people you meet, or people you may not like very much. Remember – this is your trip so bow out gracefully if they are not your vibe and actively seek out those that interest you!
Enjoy being with yourself. I made up this game a long time ago that I found to be very effective on my solo trip: . Play truth or dare with yourself. Challenge yourself to do things you don’t normally do. You will be amazed at how cool and adventurous you really are.
Accept That it Won’t Always be Easy. It may be tough at times. You may very well feel lonely, you may get lost, you may find yourself with no money, or in a bind. It’s all part of the larger adventure, being resourceful and doing it all on your own. There is no better way to know yourself.
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